Popular Nollywood actress, Omoni Oboli has reacted to the r*pe allegation levelled against COZA pastor, Biodun Fatoyinbo, by wife of singer Timi Dakolo.

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In her post, Omoni said she stands with Busola but that were some incoherency in her claims which she believed was born out of ”truthfulness”.
Read what she wrote below.

I don’t know where to start concerning the story that’s still unfolding as I write.
The Bible warns us to “be quick to hear, be slow to speak, and be slow to wrath”, and going by my personal experience of seeing how quickly many took sides without first getting all the facts, weighing it against the character of all the parties involved, given our antecedents, and then drawing conclusions from evidence and an objective comparative analysis of the accounts, rather than from emotions, envy, the thrill of seeing strife, I have waited to digest the whole matter first.
What’s her motive for speaking out? Was it just to spite the pastor in question? Was it to destroy his reputation, or gain some financial advantage? Was it to build followership through the scandal that would surely come, not knowing that the pendulum could swing in either direction, for or against her? What exactly would spur a wife of a reputable and beloved entertainer, a mother, a business woman, with a beautiful life, coveted by many, to come out to make this kind of accusation?
Given her antecedent of being a calm, ‘dramaless’ queen (unless Timi says otherwise), with no history of seeking attention or being overly dramatic (at least not publicly), how did she get to this point of going public at such a time as this simply to make ‘spurious’ accusations against a ‘man of god’, as some have said in a bid to sound ‘objective’?
I listened to the story, and because I know her husband, and his personality, I restrained myself from trying to weigh in based on the emotions that came flooding in, but here’s the thing, there was some incoherency in some of the claims, not because I believe she lied about them, but in my opinion was born out of the truthfulness of the real account. Why do I say that? Because unless you planned your own rape, the accounts are expected to sound incredible and spurious, and I suspect that’s why we don’t have so many convictions in many r*pe cases.
Is there a manual, or rapist playbook that’s being distributed to all would-be rape victims (aka all women, and some boys and men) that I missed that gives point by point descriptions…(slide right for rest of my write up )


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6 comments:

  1. All these stories doesn't make sense at all . In as much as I don't like rape stories, we have serious rape issues that concerns our teenagers out there we need to iron out. This is just nonsense. .

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  2. She is free to tell it to the world, Joyce the well know presence her was been rapped by her father and she later told the world. Just be happy you're not a victim of rape,

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  3. You have to see come to the sense of mind and see that youryo a fellow woman also and she can't just bring a story and frame it up

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  4. I know sweetie, how it hurts. We all have stories , she maybe right, or she is right, but why slient all this while? I don't just get it. She should have spoken out and put the rapist where he ought to be.

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    1. I really don't know why she was silent. maybe she wanted to be settled and married . cause if she tell the world when she was single, they will say she want to break his marriage or even need the pastor. I guess she timed everything and now was the right time for her to strike

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  5. I accept some of your view, but to jump to conclusion is really uncalled for...

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